Note: The article ’10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls’ was meant to be for fun. I am speaking from just my own personal experience as a white male and, of course, these points do not refer to all Korean women. The information in this article is going to assume that you are indeed looking for a more substantial relationship rather than something that is short term.
#1 They Don’t Want to Look Easy
There is a prejudice and fear that foreigners think Korean girls are easy. When a Korean girl dates a foreigner, they are scared that their new boyfriend may think they are easy. So, Korean women may be more cautious dating a foreign man than when dating a Korean man. They are checking to see if you are just looking for an easy girl.
Treat the girl with respect, and don’t be too aggressive in the beginning and she will realize that you are looking for something more meaningful. Pushing for ‘skinship’ or something more intimate too soon will cause her to doubt your intentions.
#2 You are a Playboy!
If you are a white, young, and somewhat handsome, male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy or womanizer. They know as a foreigner in Korea you attract a lot of attention and they may assume that you must have many girls chasing you. They will certainly start any relationship with suspicion. You are guilty until you can prove your innocence.
Early on, you may find that your new girlfriend will want to check your phone for evidence of you seeing another woman. She may be aggressive about this, so be ready to hand over your phone. She wants to check your messages and photos and interrogate you about every female name and photo. If you decline her requests to see your phone, then you are automatically guilty as a womanizer.
Don’t whine about it being your personal privacy, just hand over the damn phone. Hiding your phone just creates suspicion. The act of allowing her access to your phone will go a long way in gaining her trust quickly and destroy her suspicions.
If you are stubborn and insist on not showing your phone, she will eventually get her hands on it and check it whether you like it or not.
#3 They Have a Fantasy About You
Some Korean women, especially older ones, tend to have a fantasy of meeting a foreigner and escaping patriarchal Korean society. A lot of Korean women hate Korean traditions and culture which tend to favor Korean men. I don’t blame them. So when they date a foreigner, you are an ‘out’. You are clearly a more positive alternative than marrying a Korean guy and having to deal with an evil Korean mother-in-law or other intrusive family members.
When you start to date a Korean woman, they may already be thinking of marrying you and returning to your home country one day. I suggest you be clear early in the relationship about your future plan about returning home and if that plan includes her. Every girls hates it when their boyfriend says, “I’m going back home now… without you. Thanks for the year of free sex and being my tour guide. Bye”. Well, they don’t actually say those words, but the meaning is similar. Unfortunately, this situation is all too common.
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